The better you connect the better it will be. Anal is more about shaft stimulation than head stimulation so if makes for me at least and entirely different orgasm. I actually prefer that. You have to really, really want to get fucked in your ass. I was pretty mortified, but my boyfriend made me feel okay about it.
Plus, when a woman is into it, the feedback of the pleasure she gets as well is mind-blowing.
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Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday. Lube is necessary for it to be comfortable on her end and relax. More shaft stimulation and just the right amount of a soft pillowy hug from her bowels on my head. But a whole dick? I was absolutely mortified and I will never do it again in my life. The girls I have done anal with all wanted it at least a second time.